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I need advice on my marriage!?
Wednesday, August 18th, 2010
I am 19 and have a six month old son and I am pregnant with twins. My husband is very old fashioned and expects me to cook clean and take care of him, the kids, and the house. I am fine with this but I’m already tired and he wants me to follow the same schedule that I did when I wasn’t pregnant and when I was pregnant with just one baby.
which is:
1. Do all nighttime baby care
2. Wake him up at 6:30
3. Have a full breakfast and the newspaper ready by 7
4. Clean the whole house top to bottom every day
5. Have the children fed and clean and in the play pen by 5:30
6. Have dinner hot and ready by the time he walks in the door at 5:30
7. Clean up dinner by 7
8. Put the babies to bed by 8
9. turn down the bed by nine
10. be showered and in sexy lingerie by 10
11. Make passionate and wild love to him
12. Start it all over again.
He has told me that I will follow this same schedule through the pregnancy and the birth of the babies. Also he has told me that I have to buy bigger maternity lingerie because he won’t stand for it if I don’t make love to him every night. I told him I might be to tired and he went into a rage saying that I am his wife and I will do as he says and that if I am to tired I can pack my bags and go live with my mother for the next nine months and he’ll find someone else to make love to him until I get my act together. I am worried that if I don’t do as he says he’ll kick me out or worse cheat on me. He says we will make love until my due date and that i will make love to him the second I get home from the hospital. Also I will be having an all natural vaginal birth. My husband is thirty and I am 19. If anyone could give me advice on anything in here it would be much appreciated! Thanks in advance.
tell him to f off and show him the door. leave why are you with an old guy just think how your kids life will be. hes not worth it if you stay what a horrible life that would be
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My husband just says I’m just a whiny bi tc hy whore. Am I?
Sunday, August 15th, 2010
I am 19 and my husband is thirty. We have a six month old and I am pregnant with twins. My husband is very old fashioned and expects me to cook clean and take care of him, the kids, and the house. I was fine with this when we were married but I’m already tired and I’m only 3 months along and he wants me to follow the same schedule that I did when I wasn’t pregnant and when I was pregnant with just one baby.
which is:
1. Do all nighttime baby care
2. Wake him up at 6:30
3. Have a full breakfast and the newspaper ready by 7
4. Clean the whole house top to bottom every day
5. Have the children fed and clean and in the play pen by 5:30
6. Have dinner hot and ready by the time he walks in the door at 5:30
7. Clean up dinner by 7
8. Put the babies to bed by 8
9. turn down the bed by nine
10. be showered and in sexy lingerie by 10
11. Make passionate and wild love to him
12. Start it all over again.
He has told me that I will follow this same schedule through the pregnancy and the birth of the babies. Also he has told me that I have to buy bigger maternity lingerie because he won’t stand for it if I don’t make love to him every night. I told him I might be to tired and he went into a rage saying that I am his wife and I will do as he says and that if I am to tired I can pack my bags and go live with my mother for the next nine months and he’ll find someone else to make love to him until I get my act together. I am worried that if I don’t do as he says he’ll kick me out or worse cheat on me. He says we will make love until my due date and that i will make love to him the second I get home from the hospital. He is also forcing me to have a no-drug vaginal birth with the twins.
Am I just being petty and self centered? Should I just hold my tongue and obey him because he is my husband? I feel bad about posting this because it goes behind his back but I had to get a outsider’s opinion. My husband tells me that I am just being whiny and says that if I don’t be quiet that he’ll bump up our making love to twice a day. I feel that I really should just do as he says because he’s my husband and he knows what’s best for me. I love him and know I should just obey him and that I should have to make love to him twice a day for going behind his back and posting this.
I wanted a different opinion because all my friends say to leave him and I can’t because I love him so much!
What does everyone else think?
I did already post this but everyone was telling me to leave him and I wanted advice on how to make the marriage work NOT how to end it. So I reposted it.
Time for you both to grow up and handle the issue like a mature adults. Sit down and calmly talk about your concerns with him, let him know how you feel and ask him to help out with the common house-hold chores.
Confront the issue at hand, and make a compromise that you both can agree on.
Look into Marriage Counciling.
If you guys can’t work out the marriage, then get a divorce.
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